Let's put it this way, the Wings played well enough to cover their own mistakes and to weather the Sharks attack (since the final score wasn't a blowout). However, the way the calls went, it was an extra hurdle that made a manageable challenge become too overwhelming and thus the Wings lost.
Yes we played like crap at points in this game, yes the Sharks outplayed us at those points, but it's ridiculous for anyone to sit here and say the refs didn't have a part in deciding this game.