Chris A

Unless you want to go to another base, most girls are going to perceive what you think of as a "back rub" as a "feeling up", and either are going to respond in wanting to get boned, or being more like "hands off".

Like you, I'm more of a touchy-feely person, back rubs, foot rubs, I'm severely ADHD so I like to keep my hands busy, and hell, I give hugs to my guy friends without remorse, but what matters most is how they perceive it, not just you. If you keep running into the same scenario I'd say just no more back rubs unless it's something they're obviously okay with and won't take the wrong way.

Yeah agreed bro, seems chicks are too quick to grab the rape whistle.

So hey, I'm new to the site but had a strange thing happen the other night and I don't have a lot of close friends so here goes:
(would much rather have the opinion of Wings fans!)

My stupid friend hooked me up with his friend. We went to see a movie and i sat beside her. We had some laughs and whatnot but then after he bailed on us to try to 'set us up' like "hey i gotta be back home, you guys go to the bar".
Ok, whatever.
So we went to the bar, and had a good time, had a lot of good talks and whatnot, she was tired so she offered to come back to my place.
NOW AT THIS POINT, i have not laid a hand on her we have not been close... we drink a little more at my place and then it's sleep time. She strips down to her underwear and I to my boxers... but i'm not sure what to do because we haven't had any intimate contact!
So I keep about 3 ft between us trying not to pressure her, let her get comfy, whatever. Then we fall asleep.

NEXT DAY - chick is telling my 'friend' I'm a CREEP because i didn't make a move. I just didn't want to come across as a rapist! Damn, is this what chicks are about nowadays? f*** on the first date?

Help me out, guys.

-Chris