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I need to vent for a minute I need some help...

so I go to class today and I run into my ex who also happens to be the only boyfriend I have ever had. It ended terribly, we dont talk, and now he is like bff's with one of my friends. Its annoying. So we see each other both had like a freaked out panic look and then just went our seperate ways....then not even 5 minutes later Im talking to the guy I have been having problems with and I called him out on something he did and he replys "go away im working." when we had been having a convo in the first place. what the heck....clearly there is something wrong with me since Im incapable of a relationship but I dont understand why he would be so mean I didnt do anything. Tonight was awful....ugh.

help. :(

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I need to vent for a minute I need some help...

so I go to class today and I run into my ex who also happens to be the only boyfriend I have ever had. It ended terribly, we dont talk, and now he is like bff's with one of my friends. Its annoying. So we see each other both had like a freaked out panic look and then just went our seperate ways....then not even 5 minutes later Im talking to the guy I have been having problems with and I called him out on something he did and he replys "go away im working." when we had been having a convo in the first place. what the heck....clearly there is something wrong with me since Im incapable of a relationship but I dont understand why he would be so mean I didnt do anything. Tonight was awful....ugh.

help. :(

Oh it's not you sweetheart. Boys are stupid! Trust me. First of all, the ex thing is understandable. It's not an easy situation. But be the bigger person. Next time you see him (if ever) just be normal. Even if it doesn't feel normal. Because not only do you come off cool and confident, he comes off looking socially retarded. Second, the guy who told you to go away? Just treat him the way he treats you. Sometimes it takes a taste of their own medicine to see what they're doing. The best would be, when he has a stunned look on his face, just say "see how that feels" and walk away. Empower yourself. Girls run this world...boys are just lucky we let them live in it.

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I need to vent for a minute I need some help...

so I go to class today and I run into my ex who also happens to be the only boyfriend I have ever had. It ended terribly, we dont talk, and now he is like bff's with one of my friends. Its annoying. So we see each other both had like a freaked out panic look and then just went our seperate ways....then not even 5 minutes later Im talking to the guy I have been having problems with and I called him out on something he did and he replys "go away im working." when we had been having a convo in the first place. what the heck....clearly there is something wrong with me since Im incapable of a relationship but I dont understand why he would be so mean I didnt do anything. Tonight was awful....ugh.

help. :(

try to be emotionless as possible. show him you dont care any more (even if you still do care for him)

next time he comes up to you do the same thing "go away im working" make him feel like the scum he is for treating you that way.

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Sorry Katie that sucks. I too fail at relationships, so just listen to whatever Rabs and amber are saying lol. Don't feel too bad though, I'm sure it'll work out. You can always vent and get support in PEYL :)

My roommates made me watch One Tree Hill and New York Goes to Hollywood. One Tree Hill was alright, but I couldn't even watch New York lol it was awful.

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thanks guys...but the whole thing with the "go away" guy is that we went to high school together and we never really talked and now we have been talking for about 2 months via texting and facebook but we havent hung out. ever. its annoying and it makes me feel like Im in the third grade. So I called him out on it because whenever I mention something about it he changes the subject and I think I have a right to know why he cant hang out with me. Its pathetic.

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thanks guys...but the whole thing with the "go away" guy is that we went to high school together and we never really talked and now we have been talking for about 2 months via texting and facebook but we havent hung out. ever. its annoying and it makes me feel like Im in the third grade. So I called him out on it because whenever I mention something about it he changes the subject and I think I have a right to know why he cant hang out with me. Its pathetic.

He's probably just scared because you're too pretty for him. His loss. You don't need a loser like that. And you're in college now! A veritable buffet of college boys lies before you. Go have fun!

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He's probably just scared because you're too pretty for him. His loss. You don't need a loser like that. And you're in college now! A veritable buffet of college boys lies before you. Go have fun!

ahaha thanks rabs I dont think Im too pretty for him haha. It is his loss I will agree but there is not a good selection of boys in my college I have been eyeing and its not working well...Im just incapable of a relationship.

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Yea, from a guys thought, you should just go up to the ex and ask him how his summer was and if he did anything cool. Then tell him about the new car and everything you did. This probably won't sit well with him, shows you've moved on. About the other guy, I thought we all decided that you were better off without him. School is big, you'll run into someone who likes you for you.

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Yea, from a guys thought, you should just go up to the ex and ask him how his summer was and if he did anything cool. Then tell him about the new car and everything you did. This probably won't sit well with him, shows you've moved on. About the other guy, I thought we all decided that you were better off without him. School is big, you'll run into someone who likes you for you.

awh thanks. :blush:

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